that's why it broke down, trust. If you can't be honest and trust someone you're right it doesn't work.
Also he from the first week (!) was mentioning marriage (partnership) and moving in together, and it never went away despite me patiently pointing out that there was a partner with first call on both of those, we'd just met anyway, and we were totally different people...he was a neat freak and went a bit nuclear last weekend when I visited cos I left water on the floor after a shower...many of those, which both of us pointed to as being reasons for not living together (if it had been possible, or the right time)but still he kept trying to upgrade the relationship.
Sad cos initially from what he said he seemed perfect, not jealous and not crazy...turned out to be a neurotic neat freak with trust issues and a bad temper...*sigh*
I've reached the 'glad to be rid' stage as you might have guessed. Sad though.
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Date: 2010-12-17 05:09 am (UTC)Also he from the first week (!) was mentioning marriage (partnership) and moving in together, and it never went away despite me patiently pointing out that there was a partner with first call on both of those, we'd just met anyway, and we were totally different people...he was a neat freak and went a bit nuclear last weekend when I visited cos I left water on the floor after a shower...many of those, which both of us pointed to as being reasons for not living together (if it had been possible, or the right time)but still he kept trying to upgrade the relationship.
Sad cos initially from what he said he seemed perfect, not jealous and not crazy...turned out to be a neurotic neat freak with trust issues and a bad temper...*sigh*
I've reached the 'glad to be rid' stage as you might have guessed. Sad though.