It really just sounds like you're not superficially attracted to the type of people who are currently superficially attracted to you. Maybe, I misunderstand. But, you seem to be saying that you don't "don't go for that 'student' age group, even though a few have expressed interest." And, well, the wallet is always a concern, when you have one and the other person doesn't.
At the same time, the wallet doesn't always mean some degrading prostitution situation. I used to be really grossed out by daddy/twink, and the lesbian/heterosexual analogs: It's just exploitative. But, I have come to realize that
1. many people don't have this issue and are perfectly fine with that dynamic 2. If your persona is powerful, then you are going to be expected to provide demonstration of that power. Having money is a signal that you can provide security. And, you're a god damned bear. SO, having a wallet is actually a very strong signal that you actually have the bear qualities you present with. So, the "why's" of this dynamic aren't always automatically "someone is exploiting the shit out of someone else'. 3. The high horse is a ride for kids 12 and under. I, personally, have missed out on a ton of fun due to my insistence on riding it and worrying about exploitative undertones between consenting adults.
Also, I am truly sorry nobody told you about "The Twink's guide to investments and securities". You were done a total disservice with that. Though, if you were anything like most young people, you'd probably wouldn't have bought into that anyway. Because, let's face it: While that works, it lacks specific integrity, and that's a grotesque premise for any young person who has a lot of integrity. And, considering this post, about sexual integrity, is even happening, my guess is that you were a "young person with a ton of specific integrity'.
Hope it was alright to say all that. If not, my bad.
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Date: 2015-03-30 09:56 pm (UTC)At the same time, the wallet doesn't always mean some degrading prostitution situation. I used to be really grossed out by daddy/twink, and the lesbian/heterosexual analogs: It's just exploitative. But, I have come to realize that
1. many people don't have this issue and are perfectly fine with that dynamic
2. If your persona is powerful, then you are going to be expected to provide demonstration of that power. Having money is a signal that you can provide security. And, you're a god damned bear. SO, having a wallet is actually a very strong signal that you actually have the bear qualities you present with. So, the "why's" of this dynamic aren't always automatically "someone is exploiting the shit out of someone else'.
3. The high horse is a ride for kids 12 and under. I, personally, have missed out on a ton of fun due to my insistence on riding it and worrying about exploitative undertones between consenting adults.
Also, I am truly sorry nobody told you about "The Twink's guide to investments and securities". You were done a total disservice with that. Though, if you were anything like most young people, you'd probably wouldn't have bought into that anyway. Because, let's face it: While that works, it lacks specific integrity, and that's a grotesque premise for any young person who has a lot of integrity. And, considering this post, about sexual integrity, is even happening, my guess is that you were a "young person with a ton of specific integrity'.
Hope it was alright to say all that. If not, my bad.