Goodbye, goodbye

[fingertrouble]

Goodbye to partner #2, John in Cambridge, who couldn't trust me to be not shagging around when I said I wasn't. Even though it was polygamous (yes you can join me all in a WTF?). Someone who had nothing in common except great sex, but had to lose what he had with petty jealousy and insecurities.

Hope you have a nice life; it makes me even more grateful for John #1 now the only person who stuck with me for nearly 14 years without this kind of drama, despite our ups and downs.

A good man, and one I owe so much to, who never did bullshit like this, and never tried to possess me or try to own me, my soulmate and someone who gave me freedom and thus I freely give my love to...because he never played those games. That means so much to me...especially in this moment.

Comments

[hickbear.livejournal.com]

Sorry, hon. Having been hit by the shrapnel of the breakup of my hubby's other relationship earlier this year, this sucks. And doesn't have the decency to swallow.

{{{Hugs}}}, sweetie. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this kind of shit.

[fingertrouble.livejournal.com]

Yeah I know you've been there...nice thing is it's made me appreciate how good and wonderfully non-crazy John (formerly 1, now just John) is.

I think all my poly forays have done that, actually strengthened my relationship with him rather than weakened it like some would suggest.