This works with any-list, from musicians, DJs (eek they are the worst! Much worse than gay men, don't get them started on BPM or music genres, then it's handbags, nay large heavy metal record flightcases at dawn) messageboards and mailing lists.

You are correct. The a-lister mentality seems to be the case in any self proclaimed segment of society.
Many times I make the observation that the "bear community" can be just like fucking high school.

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