Well, like I said, I have a sad suspicion that there must be quite a few if that's the group to whom the clubs cater.

Not being a clubber (unless the boy consents ;) ), it's hard for me to say. From looking at the people who've registered for the Bear Run to which I am going (curiosity), there does seem to be a fair range of types going to THAT, anyway. From what I remember about the Black Eagle (not so much the Toolbox in Toronto), it DID seem to be a bit leaning towards Beautiful Bears - but I went with fellow Ugly Bears for company... :)

I'm sorry you've had a rough time. I'm not sure what to say. *vapid hug*

You seem like a decent chap to me, anyway, from what I can tell. :)

And I suppose I should have put a winking icon on that Out List remark. I was so very much kidding...