In Chicago, pathological avoidance of partnered guys has been raised nearly to the level of religion. It's the chief reason my partner and I have had designs to leave this town as soon as we are able.
The attitude is especially bothersome in the 20somethings just coming up in the bear world. They all want boyfriends. They all want monogamy, and picket fences, shared bank accounts, 2.5 cats and instant domesticity.
Yet you see them switch so-called monogamous "partners" practically every other week anyway. And heaven forbid, you should point out this little anomaly, like I have in the past. Then you make it onto the "Never fuck him, EVER!" list, of which I seem to be a permanent resident.
That's the reason my 411 profile starts with the question: "Where are the bears that just like to have little ol' fashioned sex?"
What I wouldn't give for a regular NSA fuckbuddy at this point . . . *sigh*
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The attitude is especially bothersome in the 20somethings just coming up in the bear world. They all want boyfriends. They all want monogamy, and picket fences, shared bank accounts, 2.5 cats and instant domesticity.
Yet you see them switch so-called monogamous "partners" practically every other week anyway. And heaven forbid, you should point out this little anomaly, like I have in the past. Then you make it onto the "Never fuck him, EVER!" list, of which I seem to be a permanent resident.
That's the reason my 411 profile starts with the question: "Where are the bears that just like to have little ol' fashioned sex?"
What I wouldn't give for a regular NSA fuckbuddy at this point . . . *sigh*